"Intimacy is a private matter". A must read in January 2019.

“Intimacy.”

The intimacy of a woman with her husband is not for public consumption but for private experience as one of a kind relationship. In the same way a believer is to have an intimacy with her husband the Lord Jesus that it is not for anyone to know in detail but to see that there is more in our relationship with our husband Jesus than what meets the eye.

The blushing or the freedom of a wife belongs to no one but to him with whom she has come to agree as one in heart, soul, strength and mind only second to and in Jesus. In the same way the intimacy of a believer with Jesus has its sacred component that is of no bodies’ business to know but belongs to the nuptial chamber.

I have no need to know what Jesus and the Father shared when Jesus spend the night in prayer. The one thing I know as a husband to my wife and as a wife to my Lord Jesus is that once you are in the oneness of agreement with your spouse there not much to talk about but to enjoy each other in the fellowship as it was in the Garden at the cool of the day.

What is there to talk with one who has renounced all others to be one with me. What is there to talk with him who has loved me first when I was still in my sins and transgressions? What can I possible want to talk with one who for loving me suffer, bleed and died for me but to enjoy the warmth of his intimacy that is for no one to know from my lips but to find out on their own? How could anyone understand the eloquent silence of God though my feeble words in a language so strange to them?

Let a virgin long for the joy of a grand motherhood but do not wake up the love for a grandchild before it’s time. Be what you are and let that define you by the Spirit in the minds of those around you, but do not help the Holy Spirit by defining yourself. Only describe what you do in Jesus and let the Holy Spirit do his job of conviction to your own amazement. For if you have “it” they will see “it” but if you do not have “it”, no amount of words will make the invisible visible.

If you have intimacy with your husband people will know it. It is like pregnancy, you can not conceal a baby in the womb but for a short time. If you are in agreement with your husband it is not time to talk but make babies and fill the earth. If you are in agreement with God’s will by taking Jesus at his word according to scripture, then you are in alignment with God heading toward “oneness” where all things are “yes” in the name of Jesus.

That is what our equation is all about.
“F=PW2” that is Faith is equal to Prayer under the Will of God as revealed in the Word of God.

I see no other way to be in alignment with God and ultimate oneness with him unless we observe this “Spiritual Law.” God “IS” and there is no other and from him we derived our existence. At death we go back to God to whom we belong forever and ever.

Praying to God in agreement is as simple and as short as saying “Yes” to God in Jesus to all his “Will”, and I need not to know before hand his will because I have already wedded the lover of my soul. Prayer is more fellowship with God than negotiation or making deals with God. Business with God takes “no time” because of the supernatural aspect of life that had been planned before the foundation of the world and bound to happen immutably in spite of secondary causes.

If you are in the intimacy of agreement with your husband, then your fellowship and oneness should overrule words such as what Jesus calls “bubbling”. If you are in agreement with God, then why “the bubbling” as if he has not spoken what you need to know in his revealed word?
Could it be possible that what actually happen is prayer is more of a “passive resistance” that indicates that our will is very much alive and want credit and glory for whatsoever comes to pass? If our wills are still alive, it will not be as easy to surrender in oneness to our husband the Lord Jesus. If we are still blushing or are free before our husband the Lord Jesus, it is a matter to be dealt in the intimacy of the nuptial chamber.

There are matters that belong to the closet and are meant to stay there in private prayer so we can resume fellowship with our fellow believer in agreement with each other and in Jesus and with God the Father in the Garden at the cool of the day and every day. If you are still asking, “How could this be?” That means that you are still single and alone without the intimacy with Jesus as your husband and estrange to the intimacy with God in Jesus which is our most precious inheritance.

No amount of words can explain to your entire satisfaction the intimacy of one who has Jesus as Lord and husband. You have to find out on your own. “Just do it now.”

Gerry Gutierrez